Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
The Relationships category contains posts regarding the stage after dating, in which you are generally in an exclusive monogamous relationship. The Relationships category includes posts on such topics as meeting the family, commitment, is he the right one for you?, etc.
Before he can commit to you, he needs you to commit to this …
This.
Just this one thing is going to make all the difference in the world between whether or not he gives you the one thing you’re looking for.Continue Reading
This week, I'm answering a letter from one of our gorgeous readers, who has chosen to call herself "Pieces of Me" (which I've shortened to Pieces). She feels like the guy she's been with for 6 years has only been playing her, with no intention of any real commitment.
Jane, why is it so hard for me to let this guy go? Clearly he has moved on with his life... :((
This has been an on again off again somewhat relationship for the past 6 years. We met on a social dating site and the way he pursued me caught my attention because he seemed confident and consistent.
Soon after we officially met in person we instantly hit it off, but shortly after we became "official" the communication began to dwindle. I would bring it to his attention and because of our work schedules and me having kids it began to make it hard.
He never took me out all we ever did was hang out at his house, he always had an issue with money and he didn't have a car but I understood and really didn't make a big deal out of it, but after a while I began to feel insecure like did he really love me the way he said he did? Was he ashamed to be seen with me in public?Continue Reading
Our letter this week comes from our beautiful friend, Madeleine, whose boyfriend of 4 months has suddenly pulled away.
Hi Jane,
I have just discovered your website and videos and they are amazing!
Here is my situation: I dated a guy for 4 months and really liked him.
Mid-July he came over to my place to tell me that he felt disconnected and needed a 3/4 month break without communication at all to see how he really feels about me.
He also said that it did not mean that it was over but he just needed a break as he is going through a lot and he feels lost at the moment.Continue Reading
You know this kind of man all too well.
He’s pulling away, he’s slowing down, he’s changing.
You’re here for one reason and one reason only: to find out how to get him back.
You want to turn back the clock, make him change back to everything you want him to be.
How do I change him back? How do I make him want what he said he wanted before? These are your questions. It's the answers you want with all your heart to know. But what if we didn't need to make it so complicated? What if it was right there in front of you?Continue Reading
One of our lovely readers, Sunflower, writes to ask if she should move in with boyfriend who says he loves her, but whose actions may tell a different story ...
I met this guy 12 years ago, he loves me, but he is commitment phobic.
After 5 years, I gave him an ultimatum, knowing it was the wrong thing to do. I told him since other women are calling you it seems to me that you want to have an open relationship, let's do that.
I will date other guys, too.
He said fine, but when he saw me having dinner with someone else he totally changed and got really upset. He called me everyday, wanted me back.
I refused for a month.
One day I gave up. I left a guy with great potential, and went back with him hoping he would change.Continue Reading
Our gorgeous friend, Anita, has written in to tell us about her boyfriend of 4-1/2 years who just doesn't seem to be able to commit to marriage.
Dear Jane,
I left my live in boyfriend 11 months ago because he seemed to have no plans to ever marry me.
He also refused to communicate at all, by that I mean if I tried to talk to him about anything regarding my feelings or our relationship (which I did very seldom) he would completely ignore me & refuse to answer me, look at me or even acknowledge my presence at all.
This was ALWAYS the response no matter how loving I was he refused to speak or even tell me if we could discuss the issue another time.Continue Reading
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